How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex is something that is often taboo and rarely spoken about but it is a huge part of our lives. The way we look at ourselves and feel about ourselves can be influenced by our sex lives, so ensuring you are getting the most out of your bedroom activities can help boost your self-confidence and have you feeling amazing about yourself all the time!

There are so many different aspects that contribute to sex. It isn’t just one position or action, there is no rule book and allowing yourself to get to grips with what you truly enjoy opens up a whole new world of pleasure for you and your partner. 

If you feel your sex life is dull or lacking, there are many different options you can try to spice it up in the bedroom and bring back any lost passion, making for amazing new experiences and sensations. 

Sex Toys

Having a little extra help never hurt anyone, especially in the bedroom. Introducing toys into your sex life can help bring a bit more oomph to the act and can make things more exciting.

Whether you choose to go for toys that can be enjoyed by both parties, or toys that pleasure one of you specifically, having some extra movement, vibration, pressure or pain can help take sex to the next level. 


Lingerie can add a touch of class and seduction to your sex life. Not only does dressing up give you an extra boost of confidence, investing in some sexy lingerie can also help to visually stimulate your partner and open the door to unexplored territories, such as roleplay and bondage. 

It can also work to make you feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin. If you are self-conscious about your body or prefer the safety blanket of being less exposed, lingerie can help to add that extra bit of coverage so you can throw all anxieties away and just enjoy yourself!


Now that you’ve delved into the world of lingerie, you may want to try out some themed costumes and play dress-up. Roleplay is a fun way to explore different sexual desires and allows you to act out all your fantasies. You can pretend to be someone completely different, or just be yourself in a cute little outfit! The world is your oyster.

Roleplay is also a good way to introduce yourself and your partner to new ideas. If you feel awkward or nervous about trying new kinks and plays, doing it in character may give you that extra bit of confidence to get stuck in. 

Of course, there's nothing wrong with keeping your sex life as is. Not everyone wants to add extra excitement and change it up. If you're comfortable with how things are, keep them that way. 

As long as you enjoy yourself and get pleasure from the activity, there are no rules to follow or a list of what is right and wrong, so just stick to what you're comfortable with and always enjoy yourself.